Here in the Northeast, November can be like a lion or a lamb. What I mean is, it can be a day filled with raging blizzard conditions or as mild as a wet spring day. Today just so happens to be more a of lamb day. It is November 6th, 58 degrees outside, windy and raining. Hardly what I would call a normal Fall occurence in the foothills of the Adirondacks. In fact, it’s been so warm that ninety percent of the leaves are yet on the ancient ash trees in my front yard, and half of those are still green. This November day is totally unexpected, but I will take it over what we have had in the past.
In years gone by, there was several major storms by now, and snow would be piled high in our yard. The furnace and snow blower would both be running full-time, and I would have to start each morning by warming up our vehicles and scraping ice and snow off the windshields. The snowplow crews would already be racking up overtime, and we would be glued to our television sets to see what businesses or schools had closed for the day. Kids would be knocking on my front door looking to make money by shoveling my sidewalks, and sand trucks would be coating the roads to keep cars from sliding into each other, or into the ditch.
But what am I looking at on this November day? I see a gentle rain soaking the road and the lawn. I see summer Kale still healthy and growing bigger in my garden. I see a light coating of orange leaves on the yard and many more yet to fall off the trees in the week or so ahead. I hear strings of geese flying overhead, and watch them circle around, wondering if it’s Spring or Fall. I see people in summer shirts, shorts and flip-flops walking along with umbrellas, enjoying this warm, wet day. It’s just amazing how things can be so different from one year to the next.
Why do I bring all this up? I bring it up because we often think our current situation is all that there is. We become so locked into the here-and-now, that we forget how quickly every circumstance can change. Year to year, month to month and even week to week the most horrendous things in life will give way to a time of clarity, peace and personal blessing. Just as one November can be full of blizzards and heating bills, another can be blessed with mild temperatures and warm rain. What makes all the difference is just a simple mater of time.
Like it or not, never forget that time is the great divider. One season of life can be full of distress, disappointment and discouragement. Bills can pile up, people can betray you and relationships get broken. Soon enough, another season will come along and it’s just the opposite. Money comes in, friends show up to help and we feel comfortable again with the life we have. All we had to do was allow enough time to pass, and keep a good attitude until the process finished. Once things run their course and a new season arrives, if we choose to, we can move on. That, my friends, is the key. Moving on is a choice that is totally up to you.
Some people get so locked into the emotions of a bad season, that the emotions hold them captive. They become a prisoner to what was, and are never able to live in the joy of what now is. This captivity will keep its death grip on them until they are willing to let it go. What I mean is, the emotions you hold on to, eventually hold on to you. The feelings a nasty season evokes, that you don’t let go of, the people and events you will not forgive, will grip your life and blind your ability to see anything but what went wrong. This means you are forever locked into the feelings of a nasty November, and will never be able to enjoy the beauty of the mild one that is right outside your window.
The nasty November’s of your past only have power over your life, if you give it to them. Forgive those you must, and let go of what happened in the past. Remember, the truth about the past is that you can’t change it, but it has the power to change you! In light of this, my question for you today is quite simple. Why wouldn’t you want to let go of the past and live the life of freedom God created you to have? Only you can answer that all-important question. Now, why don’t you go out and enjoy this beautiful November day!